When you're no longer a couple

 Splitting up is hard to do, especially if your married   Every state has its own rules of disengagement, in this state (FL) - half and half regardless who owns what    In cases of spousal abuse an amicable break up is desirable but not always possible    Men are also subject to abuse (click here)    These links are for refence   I the blogger will have been married fifty years this year   Imagine your spouse is bipolar   You  really can't    There are some wonderful moments ahead as well as heart ache and relearning the rules of engagement   What I can say for sure is you end up marrying the whole family, for better or for worse   Hopefully all you neuro typicals and the rest of us will ask for help from the right people - do ask!

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